According to the science of adult attachment, individuals typically bring one of three behaviors into their romantic relationships: anxious, avoidant, or secure. Each of these behaviors is a result of the data we’ve gathered through our collective personal experiences about what it means to be in a relationship.
Instead of Keeping Score, Seek Balance
Many couples believe a relationship should always be a 50/50 partnership when it comes to running a home. Making lists of 50/50 chores and responsibilities and checking them twice is not the way to approach finding relationship equality. Nurturing a, “We’re in this together,” attitude is a healthier approach.