Relationship Tips

Instead of Keeping Score, Seek Balance

Instead of Keeping Score, Seek Balance

Many couples believe a relationship should always be a 50/50 partnership when it comes to running a home. Making lists of 50/50 chores and responsibilities and checking them twice is not the way to approach finding relationship equality. Nurturing a, “We’re in this together,” attitude is a healthier approach.

Quiet Quitting Isn't Just Happening at Work

Quiet Quitting Isn't Just Happening at Work

Everywhere you look online, you see mentions of quiet quitting. This slow cooker of disengagement is nothing new; it's a common way to subtly yet deliberately disconnect from jobs and relationships.

Join Me This Friday, April 17th on Learn With LIFT

Join Me This Friday, April 17th on Learn With LIFT

Join Pam this Friday, April 17th on Learn With LIFT, a free virtual conversation. Pam will talk about navigating relationships during the close quarters created by the shelter in place mandates.

UpJourney Article: How to Figure out What You Want in a Relationship, According to Experts

UpJourney Article: How to Figure out What You Want in a Relationship, According to Experts

Before you jump into another relationship, you must first ask yourself “what am I really looking for in a partner?“ This UpJourney article offers some exceptional expert advice and insights.

Gratitude Builds Strong Relationships

Gratitude Builds Strong Relationships

One of the primary complaints of many partners in romantic relationships is, “I don’t feel appreciated!” This blog talks about the importance of expressing gratitude toward your partner and how appreciation brings a couple closer.

The Perfectionist Personality Type

The Perfectionist Personality Type

The Perfectionist is one of the nine personality types. Also called the Reformer, Perfectionists are rational and principled, as well as purposeful and self-controlled, often to the point of being overly critical of themselves and others. Learn more about this personality type and their impact in a relationship.

5 Days, 5 Relationship Tips

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Day 1:  Tip of the Day:

Going into a relationship with "eyes wide shut" will guarantee some unexpected and, perhaps, unwanted results.  Put your glasses on to help you filter the rays while you're out there scouting for your partner.

Day 2: 

I promise myself I will never seek a partner because:

I'm feeling lonely and emotionally needy

I'm seeking financial security

I'm feeling pressure from family and friends

I'm seeking freedom and independence from a co-dependent situation

Day 3:  

Remember, you are not in a committed relationship if your partner isn't aware.  Make sure both parties are on the same page. Don't forget to do regular check-ins.

Day 4:  

Soulmates are people with whom you have a strong connection.  You may have more than one soulmate in your lifetime and they may appear on your relationship journey to accompany you as you experience a situation.  A soulmate may also be present for a time to teach you a lesson.  Instead, when seeking a long-term committed partner, keep your eyes open for your "twin flame".  As a couple, twin flames can have a powerful impact and together open new pathways and create opportunities that will bring joy to their lives and enhance their relationship.

Day 5: 

Always remain conscious when dating and remember to choose wisely. You'll thank yourself in months and years to come!